What are the habits of a confident woman? Having confidence is like throwing yourself in the open with great posture and a bright smile. But most people get it as if hiding vulnerability inside the pocket and putting on that cape of courage whenever needed. Well, confidence is not something that you can wear anytime but more of a habit that you need to cultivate in your life daily. True confidence is what makes every woman admirable in every angle. So, I believe that you too can become one.
Here are the habits of a confident woman:
Knows her priority.
She values time and pursues effectiveness by being efficient & by keeping her priorities in check. She knows that in order for her to be on track with her goals she firstly needs to act on things that are important and urgent to her. She prioritizes the things that will keep her closer to her dreams without compromising the things she values. Confident women know how to prioritize and stick with it.
She sees life’s hurdles as stepping stones towards achieving her aspirations. She accepts that growth is essential to flourish her life’s journey. They acknowledge that problems are made not against them but their companion to become wiser and stronger in life.
Knows her boundaries.
They set standards and personal guidelines as their guard rails. They set limits to the things that they absorb from other people especially if it does no good for their overall health. Confident women know their limits. They never let themselves be taken for granted nor take other people for granted. They know when/what to give and not to give. Confident women put high value on their boundaries.
Assesses her actions.
She is patient and passionate with her progress no matter how small it is. She knows exactly where her time and effort was best spent. Confident women know how to assess and reflect on their actions & results.
Not afraid to speak out her beliefs.
She knows where to stand. She knows what she wants and she doesn’t. She is able to recognize the right time to fight and the right time to listen. Speaking up is more than just being chatty and loud. Confident women choose their words wisely and value their systems & beliefs.
Knows when to concede.
She is cultured that conceding doesn’t always mean losing. She understands that there are different sides and perspectives in every argument. Conceding is a tough choice to a proud heart but a confident woman is grounded enough to know that her value is not based on her current situation nor her position in life.
Knows when to say no.
Having healthy boundaries is important to every confident woman. They do not compromise by saying yes at everything just to please people. Their intention is not to hurt other people’s feelings but to say yes to self-love and self-compassion.
Not afraid of failure.
They know that failure is essential to their success. Oftentimes we are afraid to face it and tend to run away from it. Confident women deal with failure humbly and with an optimistic attitude. They treat it like a compass that helps them navigate the right path towards their goals.
She doesn’t blame others.
She acknowledges her responsibility to control every word that she throws at others. They never attack aggressively and without thinking. They have controlled & disciplined behavior during tough times. Confident women take full responsibility for their mistakes and refrain themselves from blaming others.
“It’s always easy to blame others. You can spend your entire life blaming the world, but your success and failures are entirely your own responsibility.”
Comparison is an expert stealer of joy. It is detrimental to their own happiness and personal successes. They accept & appreciate everyone’s differences. They believe that everyone has their timeline of highs and lows. A confident woman perseveres to improve her process and keeps her hopes high that one day, at the right time her moment will flash its lights.
Exceeds other people’s expectations.
– GIVES HER BEST WITH ALL THAT SHE DOES.
She is giving her best with all she does. Mediocrity is not in their vocabulary. It is never an option. Confident women are purposely driven people. They are proactive in every aspect of their lives.
Inspires others to be confident too
Her confidence is not a threat to others but serves as an inspiration to many. She makes other people feel good about themselves and cheer their spirit up. She is not afraid to teach everything she knows to help others succeed as well.
“Nothing is more beautiful than a confident woman who
doesn’t pretend to be something she’s not.” – unknown